Dangerously Delicious. When you watched their actual browsing habits—who they looked at and contacted—they went way outside of what they said they wanted. One is at the apex of the passionate-love phase. We were consistently choosing to meet as many people as possible instead of investing in a relationship. How old are the youngest women you'd like to meet and date? Did I have what those people had? I kindly requested she play it and heard this gem:
In the history of our species, no group has ever had as many romantic options as we have now.
Aziz Ansari: Love, Online Dating, Modern Romance and the Internet
No matter how many times you have texted back and forth, it will always be different in person. Watching him comb through those profiles, it became clear that online, every bozo could now be a stud. Even the apps themselves have been designed to make finding a match feel like playing a game. And there are many great things about being in a committed relationship. Was everyone shitty?